Mehendi
Jul 29
2020
The Ceremony & Reception
Jul 31
2020
Events are private
Please Log inWhat is a Mehendi?
A mehendi is the traditional Indian celebration where the bride has henna applied to her hands and feet for luck, joy and love. Although traditionally it's a female only event, we're modern and would like ALL our family and family to be there! Guests will also have the opportunity to have henna painted on their hands as well.
For more information on what to expect at a Mehendi, see the link below:
Venue information
The mehendi will be held in Shelein's home which is a 1930's Tudor style home. If the weather is good we'll be eating and drinking in his backyard garden!
Children are most welcome to attend but please note babysitting services will not be provided.
Vibrant!
The mendhi is an Indian cultural event so vibrant asian clothes are encouraged! It's also a garden party so if you prefer feel free to wear something smart, with shoes suitable for grass.
Shelein's house is located equidistant between Rayners Lane station on the Metropolitan or Picadilly line and North Harrow station on the Metropolitan line. It's a 10 minute walk from the station.
Ubers and taxis are also readily available.
We're having an Indian wedding so our ceremony will be an abridged Traditional Hindu event, conducted in English.
It will be then followed directly by cocktails on the lawn and a reception dinner and dancing in the Speech Room.
Harrow School
Our wedding will be held at Harrow School, the oldest public school in England, founded in 1572. Previous graduates include Winston Churchill, Jawaharlal Nehru and singer, James Blunt. More importantly, it was used in the filming of Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone and The Crown.
The school is normally closed to the public but we will have exclusive access during the wedding
so feel free to wander around and soak up the history!
The Chapel Terrace Lawn
The ceremony will be held outdoors on the Chapel Terrace lawn so please wear appropriate footwear (don't ruin your stilettos) and for the Englishmen, consider sunscreen.
15:00 Chapel Terrace venue opens
15:30 Guests to arrive
15:45 Groom's entry
16:00 When the magic happens!
17:00 Canapes & Drinks on the Terrace
Children are welcome at the ceremony, but as much as we love kids the evening is an adult only event so please grab your dancing shoes and book an external baby-sitter as we can't wait to see you!
An Indian family-style dinner will be served.
The meal will be halal and vegetarian friendly. For all other dietary requirements, please respond in the RSVP page.
Harrow School is located a 10 minute walk or a short taxi ride from the Harrow-On-The-Hill tube station (Metropolitan line).
If arriving by foot the Chapel Lawn is located behind the Harrow School Chapel.
If driving, please park at xxx. Walk up the garden path and look for Victoria and Lauren, our event organisers to lead the way to the Chapel Terrace.
Please wear formal Western or Indian attire. If you're feeling adventurous, feel free to go full Bollywood! But if you're not sure, don't hesitate to message us and we'll be happy to give suggestions!
What time should I arrive to the ceremony?
Doors open at 3pm so feel free to come early and use the time to explore the venue. Take a seat and the groom will make an Indian entrance with his entourage around 3:45pm
Your ceremony is outdoors in London. What happens if it rains? (likelihood high)
We have a wet weather solution! In the case of rain, please head to the Old Harrovian Room in the War Memorial building (look out for our event organisers to lead the way!)
What happens if it's really sunny, will I get burnt?
You're in the UK so probably not, but just in case we will have some Asian parasols to protect you from the sun's harsh rays. Feel free to take them home with you after use.
Weddings make me hungry, will there be food?
Canapes & cocktails will be served after the ceremony.
What about the Dinner Reception?
We have separate guest list for the ceremony and dinner reception as the reception is limited due to venue constraints. We hope to see you at the ceremony and are looking forward to sharing this special event with you.
Are there any colours you would prefer me not to wear
The traditional Indian and Chinese bridal colour is red which symbolises prosperity and fertility in Indian culture and is powerful and auspicious in Chinese culture and drives evil spirits away. Traditionally in both cultures, white is worn for funerals. That being said, we have no colour preferences so wear what makes you look best!
Will there be dancing?
Of course there will! We have a DJ and you'd best be practicing your bhangra dance moves!
Is there an open bar?
Do you even know us? YES of course!
What time is the reception scheduled to end?
Final carriages are due at 11:30pm.
Is there an after party?
The current plan is to head back to Shelein's house for some relaxed drinks but let's see how that goes!