Frequently Asked Questions
1. WHAT SHOULD I WEAR? IS THERE A DRESS CODE?
The dress code for our wedding is semi-formal: A suit or sports coat for gentlemen and a cocktail dress for ladies. Please indulge us by dressing in lighter hues for the beautiful San Diego weather.
2. WHAT WILL THE WEATHER BE LIKE THIS TIME OF YEAR?
Historically in San Diego, late May normally sees daytime high temperatures in the low 60 to mid 75’s F (15-24C). San Diego and much of Southern California is a desert-type climate that results in a low chance of rain. The church and reception venue will be air-conditioned.
3. WHERE ARE THE CEREMONY AND THE RECEPTION TAKING PLACE?
The ceremony is going to be held at The Immaculata Church in University San Diego. Cocktail hour and reception is taking place at Estancia La Jolla Hotel. Please check the event page for detailed information regarding the locations.
4. CAN I USE MY ELECTRONIC DEVICES DURING YOUR WEDDING?
We invite you to be fully present with us during our unplugged church ceremony. Please kindly turn off all cellphones and cameras and enjoy this moment with us. Professional photo and video will be captured and shared with our guests. Your personal photos and video are welcome at our reception! Share and tag #jenmike858
5. WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE?
We recommend that you arrive 15 minutes before the start of the ceremony to be seated. Please note that the ceremony will start promptly at the scheduled time.
6. WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THE CEREMONY?
After the ceremony, guests can enjoy their free time until cocktail hour starting at 5pm where we will be serving hors d’oeuvres and beverages.
7. ARE KIDS WELCOME?
We love your kids! Children who are attending must be registered on the guest list ahead of time so we can make accommodations for kids’ meals. Please contact us at jenmike858@gmail.com if you are bringing children.
8. CAN I BRING A DATE?
If you wish to bring your significant other or guest that was not listed on your invitation, please contact us at jenmike858@gmail.com, we will try our best to accommodate you.
9. WHEN IS THE RSVP DEADLINE? DO I NEED TO MAIL BACK MY RSVP OR CAN I DO IT ONLINE?
Please RSVP by March 1, 2022. You can RSVP on the RSVP page.
10. WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I CAN’T MAKE IT?
You will be missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “no,” so we can plan accordingly.
11. WHERE ARE YOU REGISTERED?
In Chinese and Vietnamese tradition, a red packet (Hóngbāo/Li Xi) is a gift that celebrates a couple's marriage. Red packets symbolize fortune and good luck. If you wish to help us celebrate with a gift online, please contribute on the 'registry' page.
12. WHERE DO YOU RECOMMEND I STAY?
Please check out the Travel page for lodging recommendations.
13. WHAT IS YOUR HASHTAG AND SOCIAL MEDIA?
For our wedding, we encourage guests to share their memories with us using #jenmike858 Please follow @jenmike858 on Instagram.
14. I STILL HAVE QUESTIONS, WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO CONTACT YOU?
Please don’t hesitate to email us at jenmike858@gmail.com for any questions!